Stop quarreling,
That's enough.
I'm telling you, Wang Sheng Nan,
Wang Ding Nan is my daughter
The one she owed money to is me.
I didn't say anything.
For what are you yelling?
You have that big right to talk?
Yes.
She divorced and can't make money.
So what?
I will take care of her.
You're her elder sister,
you didn't think of some ways to support her
but made a fuss here.
Add insult to injury.
You want to pressure her to death?
Get out.
Get out of my face!
What are you doing?
Sheng Nan, listen.
Let's avoid it.
Listen to me, go home first.
Look at yourselves.
Everything is screwed up.
Hello.
Aunt, please come here quickly.
My mom cut herself with a knife.
She is badly bleeding.
You should think laterally.| Go away.
How is it? Stay most calm.
Don't touch me.
Don't touch her.
Go away. | Where are you hurt?
Where?
See where she is hurt?
Give me a hand.
Please call the ambulance.
We called.
Which one?
Here, here, hold it.
Jiao Jiao.
Sweetie, Jiao Jiao.
Aunt. | It's OK now, don't cry.
Take our niece home.
It's almost morning.
I'm not tired.
How about
you take Jiao Jiao home and get a rest?
I can stay and watch her.
I'd better take care of her.
Do you feel that Ding Nan is a bit...
What do you mean?
Is that because I was too harsh on her?
She got distraught?
You come down on me very hard everyday
but I'm never that upset.
You just scolded her a bit.
Then she acted so negatively.
This patient suffers from schizophrenia
and bipolar disorder.
We call it a neurologic disease.
Her situation isn't serious now.
You two have to immediately
take her to a psychiatric hospital
so she can be hospitalized and promptly treated.
This disease
is usually due to genetic inheritance.
In your family, is there anyone
having this disease?
No.
So, when coming home,
try asking the elderly
in any generations
if there was anyone suffering from it.
Can this disease be cured?
Normally, there is no
radical cure.
However, there are till some cases
patients
returned to their normal life.
I'm her sister.
Might I inherit this disease?
We aren't
doctors specialized in genetic inheritance.
You should come and have a check.
You won't catch it, you're at this age.
If it had happened, we would have realized it.
Don't worry.
It's possible.
Maybe right after the younger sister caught it.
Will there be anything bad to Jiao Jiao?
No, there definitely won't.
Alright, stop weeping, everything is gonna be OK.
It's gonna be OK.
Mom.
I want to ask
in our family if anyone has
a medical history of
schizophrenia.
No.
What's wrong?
Think about it carefully, mom.
Why did Ding Nan suddenly become like this?
If her disease is a genetic condition
then Jiao Jiao,
it's likely that Jiao Jiao and I will have it.
I want to be well-prepared, mom.
The thing is
you used to have an aunt.
When she was young, she was heart-broken.
Then she went into a river and drowned.
Some said that she had a mental illness.
Therefore she jumped into the river herself.
It happened many years ago.
Until now, there are no conclusions.
Sheng Nan.
As long as I and you father are well
we won't let Ding Nan
bother you.
But when that day comes
I and your dad are all gone
She has only one sister, you.
You can't be indifferent to her.
Why are you saying these words, mom?
I'm Ding Nan's sister.
How can I not care for her?
Why did you say that?
She fell asleep.
Slowly.
She slept.
Carry her to the upstairs.
Uh, I'll carry the suitcase.
Wait.
Sis,
I haven't seen
teacher Tang for a long time.
I miss him.
Why did he not come to visit me?
Yuan Ming.
I know that whatever I may say
can't make up for
you
and your family.
If you still care about your daughter,
go to the hospital and visit Ding Nan.
I refuse.
Between Ding Nan and me,
I feel nothing for her.
Sis,
saying this now is
useless.
Your family
has a history of disease.
Why didn't you tell me earlier?
For that many years,
it's not a big problem for me.
But if my child
inherited it,
would it be fair for her?
I asked the doctor,
this disease is not
100% due to the genes.
But if...
Tang Ming,
the fact that Ding Nan caught it
is unexpected.
After asking my parents
I knew that my family
has this genetic disease.
Before this, I had no idea.
We don't hide it on purpose.
I beg you, come to see her.
No.
I hope that she's recovering well.
But, consider when
you can take Jiao Jiao home.
I miss her.
Jiao Jiao was commanded to stay with Ding Nan.
We'll take care of her.
Here is our property.
Each of us will take a half.
We'll consider how to do with this house and our car later.
See how much it's worth.
How to divide it.
What are you doing?
Divorce.
Do you have a fever?
This is the jewelry
you owed me.
The note you wrote to me.
I'm just kidding.
Are you still mentally ill?
What do you want to do?
I am thinking,
there is not much time left
till the day we divorce
How about splitting up now?
You want to divorce, does that mean we will do it?
Before,
when I said I was going to divorce,
you said unless you died.
You even said something about the guilt of abandonment.
Now you're self-reliant.
That's good.
What's good here?
It hasn't opened yet.
Then you're better than me.
Now my family became like this.
My parents,
my younger sister, and Jiao Jiao.
In the future, all will depend on me.
You are blaming me for not making money?
Or your first lover are urging you again?
Ding Nan's disease
need curing for her whole life in the hospital.
I'm her sister.
Others can ignore her, but I can't do that.
I don't want to make trouble for you.
What about Jiao Jiao?
I will definitely nuture her.
Miao Miao, if you want,
I can leave her to you.
But I'm not sure.
She's not well.
Now there is no longer two-child policy.
You can find another woman and have another child.
I think your brain is
really out of order.
Why do you say
my daughter isn't well?
She has the genes.
It's just an assumption.
OK OK OK.
There must be something wrong with your brain.
I'm telling you, Wang Sheng Nan,
Divorce? No way!
I never
think of splitting up with you.
And I will never divorce, unless I die.
I'll stick to you forever.
I know
you've never
regarded me as your relative.
It's OK.
However, I'm not
an unfaithful one.
The relationship between us, I had my own consideration.
It has been so many years.
Even though there is no love,
our daughter is that grown,
We still have fellowship, right?
Among family members,
if you're tired, I'll piggyback you for a bit.
If I feel fatigued, you will support me for a bit, too.
Ding Nan's disease is
a bottomless pit.
Till she dies,
she has to rely on me.
Then it's better that two people unite their strength.
Only one shoulder is easily tired.
I'm here, and ready to support you
whenever you want.
So your shoulder can rest.
Then you must take care of my sister, too.
It's for you, take it.
Da Wei.
How can you become such a talker?
If your current job was
to serve people, depend on that mouth.
Lack of beatings.
Did you just practice your skill in my place?
In front of you, I don't dare do it.
I want to tell you one secret.
What's it?
When we quarreled,
I used your toothbrush
to scrub the toilet.
So excessive!
That's one of my way to release stress.
Each time I used your toothbrush
to scrub the toilet, I could feel better.
But I would buy another one for you.
A new toothbrush.
Is it
a symptom of mental sickness?
Maybe.
My toothbrush now is used
to the point that it is almost shed all hair.
Why didn't you change a new one for me?
Recently, we haven't disputed
so I still don't have chance to do it.
It's lucky that your symptom is
just replacing the brush.
There's no disposition to commit excessive violence.
You wanna get hit?
If our house was a bit bigger,
I wouldn't share a room with you.
Scared?
Is it enough?
Did you feed cats again?
This is adequate.
By the way, I represent Lin Miao Miao
and its friends
to thank you.
No need.
So delicious, I want to eat, too.
This is not for you,
but here is yours.
Thank you so much.
I'm leaving now. | Alright.
Wait, wait.
How do you know
I love eight-treasure porridge?
I'm happy that you love it.
No.
What did I tell you?
Why are you so clumsy?
So annoying.
It's all dirty, we can't eat it anymore.
It's okay.
It's for cats.
There is one portion your mother gave to me.
Come on, I'll help you.
So ridiculous.
I waste all Aunt's kindness.
You can ask her to make another one for you.
That's all.
Your parents are so kind.
I can't say that line, you know?
If I said it
I would be more like a turkey-cock.
Do you know what is precious
about your parents?
Do you know what it is?
Cooking.
Stable emotion.
You see
they have many debts
but they can still live normally as though nothing has happened.
They're not upset at all.
Every day I can see they are
happy and opstimistic.
My parents can't be that way.
Especially my mother.
Her emotion is like sitting on a rollen coaster.
Up and down.
Two days ago, because of my aunt,
her breath was like from hell.
Still two days ago, I didn't know why
negative energy suddenly disappeared.
It means she took it out
on your father.
What?
You're so dirty.
What are you thinking of?
I mean
Your dad was in trouble again.
You look so simple,
but why your mind is that dark.
I'm home.
How are you with Miao Miao?
Good.
I think this girl is very good.
Why didn't I see San Yi recently?
What is he busy with?
Some competitions again, I think.
Before, he was ill
so he was in the hospital.
Ill.
Why was he ill?
Pneumothorax.
He is still young,
why does he catch it?
When he arranged my online shop, he got too tired.
What did you say?
That...
He got out of the hospital.
Why didn't you tell me earlier?
I was afraid you would be worried.
I would be worried.
So insensible.
Aunty.
Teacher Pei, we bothered you.
That fact the our son
made your son ill.
We should have visited earlier.
But this kid
hided it.
This made me particularly passive.
I'm terribly sorry.
San Yi's disease isn't related to any children.
He suffers from essential primary hypertension.
Yes yes yes.
If he isn't tired
he won't get sick, right?
Hao Hao told me about this.
I'm very sorry.
Uncle. | San Yi.
Hao Zi, come in.
I'll give you slippers. | Yes yes yes.
I won't come in.
It's inconvenient.
The thing is,
these are
our sincerity
And all the medical expenses.
We will pay for them.
The nutrition fee, too.
I know your family doesn't lack money,
but this is our compensation.
No need, thank you.
Teacher Pei, the kid's mother.
Today, his mother has things to do, she...
Why was she like that?
Later on, if you make any troubles
can you tell me a bit earlier?
Go go go.
Lin Miao Miao.
You're so lucky.
You know?
Our online shop is
doing well.
The turnover yesterday
came to 500 yuan.
Thanks to you.
From now on,
Hao Zi's store will also open.
Later on, we don't have to worry
about your food.
You can be happy every day.
If I was a cat, it would be better.
I could play with you everyday
in the shade.
If so, I wouldn't need to go to school.
You know what?
Studying is very boring.
There are just my enemies in class.
Deng Xiao Qi leads people to isolate me.
But
my father's current job,
appart from my mother,
everyone is just
trying to avoid it.
Next time,
I'll bring my sister,
Jiao Jiao, here
to play with you, OK?
Look at me.
You must be kind to her, OK?
Her mother is ill now.
Her father doesn't need her.
She's like you, just a poor little girl.
This cat.
Aunty. | Little girl.
Your cat.
Don't touch its stomach.
Be careful.
It is pregnant.
Are you really pregnant, Lin Miao Miao?
How can you know it?
Don't eat. | Don't touch it, don't touch it.
Don't touch it.
Mom, I want to adopt Lin Miao Miao.
Who is Lin Miao Miao?
The feral cat outside downstairs.
Its name is Lin Miao Miao.
You want to adopt a cat?
No.
Why?
It's tidy.
Moreover, it's gentle and sensible.
And it's pregnant.
You know
your current situation of your aunt.
Hereafter, our family
has more mouths to feed.
If you bring it home now,
you still have the college entrance examination,
I can't handle it all.
Then I will go out to feed it every day,
don't stop me.
The feral cat is dirty.
Just leave the food there.
Don't touch it.
I'll buy
a collar for it
to prevent it from spreading infectious diseases.
Doing the laundry?
I did it yesterday.
It's Saturday.
I don't see you picking up your daughter.
Now I'm living in the dormitory
how can I explain it to her?
Her mother is in the hospital.
If you don't take her home,
how will she feel?
Take her home.
At least you can take her home on Sunday.
Your daughter doesn't care about where you're living.
Aunt, someone is knocking.
I'm coming.
Sister,
I have days off, so I come to get my daughter.
Dad, dad.
Dad.
Recently, I bothered you
to take care of her.
I was up to my neck in work.
I want to use my time off from work to make up for her.
Today is Sunday.
I want to take her out.
Will she be home for dinner?
No, I won't.
Before 9 p.m, I will take her home.
Darling.
Darling, I'm home.
This is for you.
Your birthday gift.
I've endured all kinds of hardships.
No matter how hard it was, I decided to
come home on the day before your birthday.
You can see
your position in my heart
is extremely important.
What about my position in life?
Why are you like that again?
What?
My birthday is coming.
How long do you want to let me stay with you
without a positon?
No matter how many years
there is only you in my heart.
That Pei Yin.
The only thing she has more than you is a sheet.
I want that sheet.
Why are you so unreasonable?
Just give it to me.
Yeah, yeah, I will give it to you, alright?
Alright, I want to take a bath.
I'm coming.
Hello.
What's wrong?
I represent Kun to pay you a visit.
No need.
Should you give it up now?
Now it's your turn to ask me that?
Your marriage fell apart.
Why do you have to hold him back?
Do you think you're selfish?
You're not qualified enough to talk to me.
Is it good to act that way?
Wether it's good or not
it's none of your concern.
Don't act all high siddity.
In this marriage,
your biggest merit is
giving birth to a son.
It just shows that
Qian family's gene is good.
Qian San Yi is coming to the college.
Can you still use him as your bargaining counter?
Do you know what it means?
Hypocrisy.
Mom, why are you here?
What happened?
Come here.
Explain it.
Mom, you touched my personal stuff again.
Since when?
To what extent has your relationship developed?
You misunderstood.
Am I a fool?
You're so naive.
A girl like this,
do you think she's suitable for you?
Listen to me.
Break up today.
There is nothing between us.
Before it goes further
break up.
It is better to just get it over with, rather than prolong the agony.
Agony? Break up? What are you talking about?
Their family background.
You aldready knew it.
Her aunt used to have mental illness.
Such a girl like Lin Miao Miao
acts crazily every day.
Think carefully.
Is she suitable for you?
Have you ever
thought about your future?
In terms of genetic inheritance,
your father and I
have no genetic disease inheriting from our families, right?
Only our perfect combination
resulted in an excellent son like you.
Are you two happy?
Yes.
Your gene is good.
But my father doesn't love you.
Your life
has never been good.
Why did you give birth to me?
No children want to
grow up
in a family that has no love.
No love?
When saying that,
did you care about my feelings?
I don't love you?
Your grandparents
and your father
have never loved you?
Everyone loves me.
Me, too.
But my family is not normal.
You know what?
You quite admire Lin Miao Miao.
What makes you admire her?
Healthy.
I mean, mentally healthy.
Do you have a feeling that our family
is living inside a dry well?
Everyday, in front of you, I'm like in a play.
I'm so tired.
I can't pretend anymore.
I don't want to do it anymore.
I want to live my own life.
How dare you!
You want your own life.
Now, isn't it
the life you want?
What kind of life do you wish?
A life where there isn't your interference,
Even if I find a girlfriend
she won't be the same as you.
This soup.
I didn't drink it.
I dumped all.
I'm coming.
What happened to you?
Hao Zi, can you lend me some clothes?
I want to take a bath.
Hey.
Why are you standing there?
What happened?
Nothing.
Come back to work.
I'm not busy.
I can stay with you a bit.
I don't need it.
Someone is coming.
Quick, quick, quick.
Miao Miao is hungry.
Hurry up, food, food. │ OK, OK.
Alright. Your food is coming.
Teacher Qian.
Why are you free today?
I'm just waiting for you.
Here, here. Hurry up.
Eat, eat it.
Something burnt?
Keep your voice down, you scared Miao Miao.
Eat, eat, eat.
Eat till you're full.
Look at it.
Are you free?
What?
Go to the cinema with me.
What's wrong with you?
You are going or not?
To ask me to the movies,
you took a bath and even changed clothes?
Good intention.
You.
What are you doing?
Nothing.
What?
Why are we watching an animation?
How about a horror movie?
If you are scared of it,
I can protect you.
The phone number you dialed is turned off.
Sorry.
The phone number you dialed is turned off.
Sorry.
The phone number you dialed...
She's still not picking up?
Miao Miao.│ This girl.
Why does she come home so late?
Is Miao Miao here?
I'm calling her.
What's wrong with Miao Miao?
Qian San Yi left home.
Miao Miao isn't at home, too.
What happened?
I saw this and I was worried too much,
I was worried too much.
I told him off.
I can't find him.
Don't worry, don't worry.
Come in first.
Come in and talk.
I found him the entire afternoon. │ Just come in first.
Hurry up and call Miao Miao again.
I called her before.
Miao Miao didn't pick up, too.
It's OK, it's OK, come one.
What was wrong? │ Take a seat.
Long time no work.
I feel so strange.
Who's calling?
Isn't it your son?
Sheng Nan.
Hello. | Jiang Tian Hao's mother.
Sheng Nan.
Where are you?
I, I just came home.
I didn't see my Miao Miao.
What?
Qian San Yi, Miao Miao.
Are they with Jiang Tian Hao now?
Hao Hao is going on a delivery.
I don't know.
How about this, don't worry so much.
Let me
call Hao Hao.
I'll ask him, aright?
Yes.
Yes, yes.
OK, I'm hanging up.
I'm Qian Yu Kun,
Qian San Yi's father.
I believe that there are many parents saying words like
others' children
like this, like that.
Sometimes,
as parents,
we unconsciously
compare our children with the other.
I think it's wrong.
Each child
is an independent individual.
They have their own characteristics
and hobbies.
Moreover each of them
has different
strong points.
You compare your child's weakness
with others' child's strength.
It's not fair for your child.
We should
pay more attention to
our children's strengths
instead of criticizing every time.
Learn to respect your children's choice.
Educating
by guiding, and supporting
is what Chinese parents
should learn and follow.
Don't let the comparison affect you.
You must
sincerely think about your children's future.
Build a good living environment
for their development.
Therefore, the child's personalities
can grow up completely
to be a physically and mentally healthy person.